Educational information; not financial advice or a pre-approval.
The 10 steps, in order
- Mortgage pre-approval
- Budget and savings
- Your credit
- Assistance programs
- Searching by area
- The offer and due diligence
- Inspection and appraisal
- Closing costs
- Closing with an attorney
- After closing
There is no single calendar for buying a home, and anyone who promises one is guessing. What is fixed are a few deadlines that set the pace. According to the CFPB, pre-approval letters typically expire in 30 to 60 days; your lender must send a Loan Estimate within three business days of receiving your application; and the Closing Disclosure must reach you at least three business days before closing. In between, the due diligence period and the closing date are not set by law: they are negotiated in each contract and run from the effective date. Preparation is the most variable part. A credit dispute, for example, usually takes around 30 days to be investigated, so starting early always pays off.
01Mortgage pre-approval
Before you tour homes with an eye to making an offer, get a pre-approval letter. It is a lender's tentative answer to "how much would you lend me?", based on your credit, income, debts and savings. It is not an approved loan: final approval comes once a home is under contract and the lender has reviewed the property. Ask your lender which documents to have ready. If you want to compare lenders, do it within a few weeks; the CFPB says mortgage credit checks within a 45-day window are recorded as a single inquiry, though scoring models can vary. And if you plan to buy with an ITIN, say so in the first conversation, because those loans follow their own rules.
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02Budget and savings
The money for a purchase doesn't leave your account all at once. The due diligence fee and earnest money are due when your offer is accepted; the inspection, while you're checking the house; the down payment, closing costs and prepaids, at closing. After that, you still want a cushion for surprises. The minimum down payment depends on the loan: 3.5% with FHA and a 580 score or higher, 3% with HomeReady or Home Possible conventional loans if your income is within the area limit, and $0 with VA or USDA, all subject to qualification. On an illustrative $300,000 home, that ranges from $0 to $10,500. The calculator gives you a range from your own numbers, and if you're still torn between renting and buying, compare the full cost of owning.
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03Your credit
Your score decides which doors open. Two useful markers: 640 is the minimum for the NCHFA programs, and 580 unlocks FHA's lowest down payment, always subject to qualification. Start by pulling all three reports; the FTC confirms you can check them free every week at AnnualCreditReport.com. If something is wrong, dispute it in writing with each bureau that shows it and with the company that reported it, and expect roughly 30 days for the investigation. In the FICO model, paying on time weighs 35% and amounts owed 30%, so bringing card balances under 30% of your limits tends to show up. With a thin file, a secured card or a credit-builder loan is a sensible start. From the day you apply until closing, don't open or close accounts.
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04Assistance programs
Check for assistance before you settle on a price, because it changes how much you need saved. For buyers who qualify, there is up to $15,000 toward the down payment plus closing-cost assistance programs, subject to qualification. The state's main option, NCHFA's NC 1st Home Advantage Down Payment, is for first-time buyers (no principal residence owned in the past three years), veterans, or purchases in designated census tracts, with a $525,000 price cap and a 640 minimum score. It pairs with the NC Home Advantage Mortgage™, which on its own can add up to 3% of the loan amount and doesn't require first-time status. Both are subject to qualification and carry income limits. Terms and funding can change; your lender confirms them.
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05Searching by area
Once your price range is clear, choose an area with data, not guesswork. In September 2026, per Canopy Realtor® Association and ShowingTime, county medians ran from $320,000 in Rowan to $474,000 in Union, with Cabarrus at $374,950 and Mecklenburg at $450,000. A median is for comparing counties, not for predicting the price of the home you'll buy: every county has pricier and more affordable streets. Add in what changes your monthly cost from place to place: the county tax rate plus any town rate, insurance, and HOA dues if there are any. Drive the commute at rush hour, and if USDA is on the table (also subject to qualification), look up the exact address on the program's map. Before an agent tours homes with you, you'll sign a written agreement.
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06The offer and due diligence
Nearly every North Carolina purchase uses the standard Offer to Purchase and Contract (Form 2-T), and two payments set it apart. The due diligence fee goes straight to the seller on the contract's effective date and generally isn't refunded, with narrow exceptions such as a material breach by the seller. Earnest money, by contrast, sits in a trust or escrow account and is generally returned if you terminate in writing before the due diligence period ends. That period has no fixed length: it's negotiated, starts on the effective date and lets you walk away for any reason or none. Once it expires, the loan risk shifts to you. Neither amount is mandatory; both are set by price, competition and recent sales.
→ How an offer works in North Carolina
07Inspection and appraisal
Everything you need to learn about the house gets learned inside the due diligence period, not after it. You hire the home inspector and, when the property calls for it, pest or septic inspections; with the report in hand you can ask for repairs or a credit, though the seller doesn't have to agree. The lender orders the appraisal to confirm the value supports the loan; if it comes in low, we review the options while the clock is still running. During the same weeks, get homeowner's insurance quotes on identical coverage, as the NC Department of Insurance recommends, and review a survey and HOA documents where they apply. That's why the offer should ask for enough time to cover the appraisal and loan approval.
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08Closing costs
Beyond the down payment, closing brings lender charges, third-party services such as the appraisal and title insurance, government fees to record the deed and mortgage, and prepaids that fund your escrow account. No single percentage fits everyone; your number shows up first on the Loan Estimate and, in final form, on the Closing Disclosure. Some loans, each subject to qualification, carry their own charges: FHA has an upfront mortgage insurance premium of 1.75% of the base loan, and USDA an upfront fee of 1%. One North Carolina advantage: the deed excise tax, $1 per $500 of the price, is paid by the seller. Your offer can also ask the seller for a credit toward your costs, within each loan's limits. Comparing two or three Loan Estimates shows the real differences.
→ Closing costs in North Carolina: what they are and who pays
09Closing with an attorney
In North Carolina, a licensed attorney provides the legal services for a residential closing: preparing the deed and giving the title opinion. Your agent coordinates dates and negotiates but doesn't give legal advice. At least three business days ahead, you'll receive the Closing Disclosure; compare it line by line with your Loan Estimate and ask about anything that changed. Until closing day, keep your finances steady: no financing furniture or a car, no job change without telling your lender, and paper trails for any large deposit. One precaution with no exceptions: before you wire money, call the attorney's office at a number you already know and confirm the instructions. Never use a phone number from an email. Bring valid photo ID to the signing.
→ What the closing attorney does in North Carolina
10After closing
The keys start a new checklist. Keep your Closing Disclosure, deed, policies, inspection report and warranties together; you'll want them for taxes, claims or a future sale. The NC Department of Insurance warns that homeowner's insurance has no grace period, and it suggests keeping a home inventory. Property taxes are figured per $100 of value using the county rate plus any town rate; Mecklenburg, for example, has its next revaluation scheduled for 2027. If your down payment came from an NCHFA deferred second mortgage, selling or refinancing before year 15 means repaying the portion not yet forgiven. And over time your equity grows: market value minus the payoff balance on your loan.
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Frequently asked questions
How long does it take to buy a home in North Carolina from start to finish?
There is no single timeline. Getting your credit, savings and documents ready can take weeks or months, depending on where you start. Once your offer is accepted, the contract sets when due diligence ends and when you close, and both dates are negotiated around your loan's timing. The one fixed marker from the CFPB: your Closing Disclosure must arrive at least three business days before closing.
Do I need 20% down to buy a home?
Not for most loans first-time buyers use. FHA allows 3.5% down with a 580 score or higher, HomeReady and Home Possible start at 3% with income limits, and VA and USDA may require no down payment at all. On top of that, there is up to $15,000 toward the down payment plus closing-cost assistance programs, subject to qualification. Your lender confirms what applies to you.
Can I buy a home with an ITIN instead of a Social Security number?
ITIN mortgages exist, but they are generally portfolio or non-QM products with rules set by each lender, always subject to qualification. FHA and USDA require lawful status, and the NCHFA programs require U.S. legal residency. Mention your ITIN in the first call so the search starts with the right kind of loan. For immigration questions, the right person to ask is an immigration attorney.
What money could I lose if I back out after my offer is accepted?
It depends on timing. If you terminate in writing before the due diligence period ends, you generally get your earnest money back, but the due diligence fee usually stays with the seller. If you go past that date and then don't close, your earnest money is at risk too. That's why it pays to offer amounts you're willing to risk and a period long enough for the appraisal and loan.
When do I have to sign an agreement with my agent?
At two points. Since August 17, 2024, the NAR settlement requires a written agreement before an agent tours homes with you, and it can cover touring only. Separately, North Carolina Real Estate Commission Rule 58A .0104 requires a written buyer agency agreement no later than when an offer is made. Before signing, read the term, the services included and how compensation is handled.
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